Gracie\'s Playground

what i’m missing
Saturday February 20th 2010, 10:45 pm
Filed under: Grace,Mindfuck

something is not quite right.

something is off.

something is missing…

i am starting to realize more and more how much i miss a great voice in my ear making me come. i used to have that and it was in abundance. i didn’t even have to touch myself and i would orgasm. now it’s null.

i was watching The Reader tonight and getting stirred up from the movie. you are thinking it’s the sex i am getting hot over but it’s not that. it was watching the boy actor reflecting on his afternoon at the dinner table in front of his family. watching his face react and snap as his younger sister eyed him in suspicion. it was the scenes when he was reading out loud or speaking in latin. it’s those moments that strike me.

when i watched Sweeney Todd a million times it wasn’t just for the slashing of the throats or the singing. it was watching Sweeney Todd sing to his shiny, silver razor blades with such love and admiration. watching the judge’s fingertips glide on the old spines of the books in his library. that scene triggered me being in used book stores and the smells of the books and the intimacy of being surrounded by words.

it’s the mental that leads to the physical and some guys don’t get that with us women. we want to be mentally fucked before you even lay hands on us. you want better sex? you want her to swallow? you want to stick your cock in her ass? you have to get her HOT and she will bow to your every whim. it’s true and i’ll be the first or second to admit it.

i am a slave to a mindfuck. so the next time you are seducing the female sex, use that top brain before you dare use the other brain.

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I refer to this as intellectual fornication, and to me, it’s the hottest form of communication. To be honest, if it’s not there, the rest of it just isnt as interesting to me…and this is coming from a guy’s perspective. Great post. Great point.

Comment by ShowMeSecrets 02.21.10 @ 1:15 am

@SMS ahh i like that “intellectual fornication”. thank you for the feedback. i am trying to better with all “this” again. *smile*

Comment by Gracie 02.21.10 @ 1:18 am

I was having a similar conversation with someone recently. I never say the word “fuck”, unless it’s in context, in a moment when it’ll carry weight and have the effect that I want it to.
I’ve also found myself disappointed by those that can’t turn me on with a conversation. I’ve often wondered if it isn’t a little bourgeois of me to find a silver tongue to be more of an instant turn on than a pretty face.
Well said, Gracie.
Also, i’m with you every step of the way in regard to Sweeny Todd…

Comment by ryanstgermain 02.21.10 @ 5:48 pm

@ryan i miss the man with the silver tongue that focused solely on me or led me to believe i was the only one. i agree, the mental turns me on far more and before the physical aspects.

now i need to watch Sweeney Todd. i need another rush. *smile*

Comment by Gracie 02.21.10 @ 7:21 pm

The mind is still the sexiest organ – and mixed with someone who can verbalize eloquently and primally will make a woman throb. I have made over 1000 women come by my ability to “mindfuck” and psychologically contact their verbal g-spot. Nothing pleases me more than feeling a woman open, get drenched and crave to be filled just by my words and my mentality. The art of seduction mixed with the proper imagery and words.

Comment by Playmaster713 02.21.10 @ 10:41 pm

It is what a person says that keeps another captivated.
What a person says makes all of his/her actions that much more important… especially when it comes to lust/love/sex.

Comment by Inferno 02.22.10 @ 4:29 am

@Playmaster713 i love that you mention the mind as a sex organ and the “verbal g-spot”. you seem to know how to properly play the game. well done.

@Inferno very true. i agree.

Comment by Gracie 02.22.10 @ 10:33 am

Thank you Gracie – sex is a brilliant chess game – not to be rushed, to understand the others response system, to subtly control the outcome elegantly and powerfully – the more one is in tune with their own primal desires uninhibitedly – they can tap into the exquisite perversion of their partner and take them on an explosive ride- The art of safety and freedom.
I have a chapter written on me in the book Sex: an oral history – in which the author describes what I do and what I create.
Gracie – your raw sexual self is a true gift and an energy that elicits animalistic responses and permission to be sexually free. I applaud you!!

Comment by Playmaster713 02.22.10 @ 10:46 am

You’ll find it again, Gracie (your silver tongued devil).

Comment by ryanstgermain 02.22.10 @ 11:05 am

@Playmaster713 i will have to look for that book and read. i am intrigued.

@ryan ahh yes you are a silver tongued devil. *smile*

Comment by Gracie 02.22.10 @ 2:56 pm

That pleases me – There was a film that filmed me in action over the phone getting a “stranger” into a very heightened state of excitement and her willingness to express her deepest and rawest desires and then continuously cumming by my words and intensity – the film lost funding and got shelved but very erotic experience all around. Stay wet Gracie, stay hungry!

Comment by Playmaster713 02.22.10 @ 3:36 pm

Oh thank you for this… so very very true. it’s how I feel.

Comment by Mina 02.23.10 @ 11:51 am

More and more people like Mina understand that the mind and psyche has to be engaged for there to be any authentic interest and excitement. The words have to trigger a place inside that activates deep longing and depicts the imagery that one feels turned on about. Intelligence,texture,verbal acumen creates wetness, sensation and heat.

Comment by Playmaster713 02.23.10 @ 11:58 am

@Mina thank you love for stopping by. i know a lot of us women need this.

how is NY? i MISS you!!

Comment by Gracie 02.23.10 @ 12:13 pm

Amen sister!!! It cannot be stressed enough how vital the “mindfuck” is to female sexuality. I think it’s important for a man too just perhaps not as high on the list. For me its the longing, the anticipation, the mounting desire that culminate in good sex.

I too used to have more of it in my life, and I too miss it, Gracie.

Comment by Mimi 02.24.10 @ 2:29 pm

Aaaahh The Reader is one of my favourite films. Yes I miss ‘the voice’ the one that you make me feel and do all sorts of deviant things. The mindfucks I miss badly.

Comment by vanimp 02.26.10 @ 2:46 am

@Mimi & @Vanimp so good to know i am not the only one that feels this way.

Comment by Gracie 02.26.10 @ 10:03 am

How are you Gracie? Have you had any good mind fucks lately? Anyone tantalize your mind and titillate your loins? Hope so – you deserve to be properly and thoroughly fucked – and that starts with your mind and ends with your cum. Sleep well!

Comment by Playmaster713 02.26.10 @ 9:25 pm

Ahh the long long kiss. I miss you also.

Comment by John Allen 03.04.10 @ 9:39 pm

OMG this is just what i needed! i recently got into a mini fight with my gf over sex. n i totally misunderstood what she was saying. (partly because she poorly articulated exactly what you so eloquently put forward in ur post) she was saying that all i want from her is sex. n im wonderingwell yes i like sex. n i got defensive cuz i thought she was saying that the sex wsasnt good. wen infact the ACTUAL sex wasnt the issue. i used to right poems, very erotic poems for her. and read them to her in bed at night in the lead up to sex. sometimes there was NO sex just holding and caressing. however weve been in a long distance relationship where i see her 4 months out of the yr for the last yr because of work and what not. and when i see her il admit it all i wanna do is FUCK. and its extra ruff animalistic MATING no sensuality involved. and im now understanding that this is the problem. i have to go back to loving her and teasing her and turning her mind on before i turn on her pussy. I GET IT! thanks alot…u may have just saved my relationship…ur SO invited to the wedding! LOL

Comment by stronglove 03.05.10 @ 8:51 am

I often become depressed, thinking about how much I don’t look like I used to, comparing myself with models, making sure everything fits just right. When really, I just want to be loved for my image whatever that looks like, because I know I’m hot. I know my exterior doesn’t scream “I want to fuch that, uhh, uhhhh uhhhhh!” all the time. I don’t want to look like the models. I like my look. I know though, the reason I’m looking to shape myself into something I’m not (modelesque) is because I’m missing out on the mindfuck that my spirit craves. I don’t need a religion, I need a hope of mankind, that there’s more to sex and life for women than looking like a twig. And I know this, I know there are guys who seek this. I think i’ve been dry soo long, I forgot what being wet feels like. maybe this is where the ol’ saying “she was dry to the bone” comes from. This is why older women get crotchety…literally their “lovely” needs attention!! 🙂

Comment by mrdoolittle 05.06.10 @ 9:05 am

mrdoolittle, i assure you i am not a twig. i accepted my body for what it is. all though there are a lot of men out there very narrow minded, there are also plenty of men out there that love a mind over the image of what a woman should look like.

when i am not looking for a lover whether it’s physical or just online and mental, that is when i happen to come across one.

good luck and please, love yourself and fuck Cosmo and all that other bullshit out there distorting the image of what a real woman looks like.

Comment by dark gracie ® 05.06.10 @ 9:18 am

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