i open up my emails this morning. i cannot help but stare at the subject of one in bold lettering: You on Playboy Radio
okay first off i think this is some lame ass ploy for me to advertise on my blog which i refuse to do. i would rather flood my blog with photos and art then to be a whore and put annoying fucking ads on my blog, sorry that is just my opinion. i don’t hate the others for doing it, i just artistically find it…an eye sore. i do not mind putting up links that i feel are worth a look, but…i am going off subject.
so i open up the email with great skepticism (as most capricorns do) and it had the following:
Hey there Gracie..
I write for dirtyspoke.com and found your site linking through some
others. Every Monday, us girls review a sex blog on Sirius’ Playboy
Radio. This Monday, I’m going to talk about yours! I think it’s very
hot, and I’m sure the listeners will love it also.
I just wanted to touch base and see if there’s anything else you may
want to share that isn’t necessarily on your site…like a brief bio
or something. Maybe clarify if you’re in a relationship or more of a
guy-to-guy girl, swinger, bicurious, etc…And I’m assuming your
profile shot is not you, but if it is, let me know. If you don’t feel
like revealing anything, that’s fine too; I’ll just use what you’ve
got on the site.
If you subscribe to Sirius, make sure you tune in around 7:30!
Otherwise, you can check our site (www.dirtyspoke.com) for the audio
and a full written review on Monday morning/afternoon.
my first reaction is panic. do i really want this kind of exposure to my blog? do i have a choice? i have seen internet reviews and even found one by links by DH Blog Spicy that talked about my blogs. but, radio? damn. i sat there in shock for a few minutes and decided to respond to her email:
wow, i am rather shocked and honored that someone is going to talk
about my blog on the radio. i am a little nervous about it, but that
is ok. *laughing*
i am married, and no that is not my picture on my profile (i do like
to keep my identity private considering the deviant i am). i am
bi-sexual. my husband and i are considering adding men/women to the
bedroom, we are just having a problem finding the right one as we are
both particular. i enjoy talking to various men for different needs,
these are my gems and they know who they are. my husband is aware that i do talk to men. i don’t cyber with men, i like to dig into their
brains and pull out their dark secrets that they cannot even share
with their spouses. i am not after a quick fix, i am after a never
ending mind fuck. i keep most of my off line interactions off my blog
out of respect for my gems unless they ask or grant me to do so. with
gems you never want to sever the bond
what i write about on my blog is very truthful and not fantasy unless
it is a thought i am having. i love art and i love to write. however,
i make no claims to being great in grammar. i don’t write for anyone
but myself. some of my readers will send me emails saying at times
what i write is not their cup of tea. i understand and can respect
their opinions. but, this blog is just a way for me to open a window
into my bedroom and sexuality. it is not going to be for everyone. it
is my form of exhibitionism with some taste. i am not going to post
pictures of myself just to get hits on my blog. i want visits because
a person wants to read me, wants to be voyeuristic into my realm. i
also believe i have inspired other female bloggers as their writing
styles slowly change. i leave hallmark writing for hallmark and i will
keep my style of writing for the deviants.
i don’t judge anyone either. the only people that i utterly despise are
those that do not have open minds and they are so quick to judge.
those are the “vanilla” people and they can just stay on their side of
the train tracks. i don’t need them in my life nor on my blog.
i will gladly add your link to my site since you are doing a review.
since i do not have sirius, is there any way to get a transcript of
the review so that i can post it on my blog?
and so it begins. i anticipate for monday to come along to see what these DJ’s on playboy radio are going to say about my sexually explicit blog. so, if you have the playboy radio channel, listen for me. i won’t be able to listen to the review till they post it on the website monday afternoon. i will update this entry with the proper linkage to the review, etc. etc.
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