Gracie\'s Playground

An Open Letter To Future Male Lover
Tuesday January 24th 2012, 1:17 pm
Filed under: Breath Play,Fleshbot,Good Vibrations,Masochist,Mindfuck,Oral,Sex

Dear Future Male Lover,

You might think it’s so cute that I am always horny or even think it’s novel but it’s not. You won’t think that after you have left your seed in my ass, completely spent and I am pawing at you because I need to come again. I am insatiable when it comes to sex I only require mere minutes to feel this need to be used again.

I like porn.

I like watching porn with you.

I like watching porn with your cock in my mouth.

When I say I like filthy sex, I mean it. That means I enjoy your cock shoved all the way inside me with your hand wrapped around my throat and I don’t mean in a loving way. I want to let out aggression and I want you to let out your aggression on me. This means you can inflict pain upon me but never slap my face. Leave a mark because I want a reminder of our time together.

If you desire my ass and know how to fuck one, then by all means help yourself. If you want to make me come, rub your cock against my asshole. If you want to make me wet, spit on my asshole. If you want me to lose it, come against my asshole. I get very wet so no lube is required.

I’m not a fan of bondage but that doesn’t mean you can’t pin me down. I’m not a fan of flogging props but that doesn’t mean you can’t spank me with your bare hands. I am a fan of toys and especially shiny steel ones so please use as frequent as you like and along with your fingers and cock.

I’m very open minded sexually so if there is something you would like that will get you off, please speak up. It’s even better when we are talking about our sex life in public with people all around us.

If I am sleeping and you are horny, this is an open invitation to fuck me. I want you to want me and I want you to want fuck me whenever you feel the need.

If and when I cry after coming really hard you just need to hold me. We don’t need to talk about it and trust me it’s not you. If anything, be proud because when I come very intensely I will either: cry, be very angry or laugh. Just know you did a very good job.

I have a fantastic sense of humor and I don’t take things too seriously. If you want to crack a joke post fucking, please do so. I have a sick sense of humor so please indulge me.

I love to be wanted and when we are not together please feel free to text or email me that you want to fuck me limp. Knowing one is wanted is key to a sexual relationship and I never grow tired of being wanted.

I get off when you get off. I enjoy making you come and I enjoy swallowing your come. It’s not all about me but us and I want to make sure you getting off as much as I am when we are together.
I love foreplay. I love kissing. I love hearing your words in my ear. You want me “on” then make sure you do the part. I can make out for hours and have plenty of orgasms just by the heightened sense of arousal from those little gestures that are sometimes forgotten when two people engage physically.

Fuck my mind and you can fuck my body.

With Lust,
Dark Gracie

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60 Comments so far
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The last line says it all. Even for people who don’t realize it yet.

Comment by Hardin Reddy 01.24.12 @ 1:27 pm

Hardin, yes, it’s so true yet so many fail at this one little thing.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.24.12 @ 1:32 pm

…Jesus Christ.

Comment by Giacomo 01.24.12 @ 1:35 pm

Giacomo, shocked?

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.24.12 @ 1:39 pm

A new manifesto for the 21st century. Thank you!

Comment by N. Likes 01.24.12 @ 1:44 pm

N, thank you for the comment and stopping by. I felt it needed to be written and next week will be one for the females.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.24.12 @ 1:49 pm

That last line needs to be taught in sex-ed classes. It’s been the downfall to 90% of the sex I’ve had in the last year.

Comment by 5mma 01.24.12 @ 1:49 pm

5mma, I completely agree with you darling.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.24.12 @ 1:50 pm

Please, please, can I just watch and masturbate? I will be good and not get in trouble.

Comment by thesolitudeone 01.24.12 @ 4:05 pm

thesolitudeone, I’m not much of an exhibitionist my dear just a mental exhibitionist.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.24.12 @ 8:00 pm

A terrific letter and very mind blowing description of your desires. My favorite is the open invitation to your lover to fuck you, even while you’re asleep. I had a wife who hated the idea. Later I had a girl friend who asked me please fuck her when she slept. I gladly woke up during the night and entered her from behind. She always awakened with a smile as I fucked her and came inside her. (one night we did this three times!)

Thanks for your post.

Comment by Jim 01.24.12 @ 6:37 pm

Jim, Thank you very much for stopping by and leaving a comment. I love the surprise of being wanted. It’s that desire that needs to be sated and it cannot wait for daylight.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.24.12 @ 8:02 pm

OMG!! Gracie you are the definition of a perfect woman.

Comment by Robert 01.24.12 @ 6:48 pm

Robert, Thank you. I’m not perfect but I strive for happiness.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.24.12 @ 8:02 pm

Dark Gracie,
Your bluntness is exactly what is required. Too often us males blunder about trying to figure out exactly what YOU, our partners, truly enjoy. Sometimes it takes years for us to hear “well I really like it what you call me x” and that is just time wasted. I thought your last line was particularly succinct. If we aren’t in your head, then we will never achieve that level of intimacy with your body.

aka55

Comment by arthur aka55 01.24.12 @ 8:26 pm

Arthur, thank you for the comment. Being open and honest is the best policy.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.24.12 @ 10:33 pm

This should be acceptable. Not always fun (I’ve been in demand when I wasn’t in the mood, it’s a problem) but it’s not wrong or bad or evil.

Likewise, the opposite should also be acceptable. Not always fun, but it’s not wrong or bad or evil.

Comment by Nobilis Reed 01.24.12 @ 8:28 pm

Nobilis, so it’s good and bad. I’ll take that. 😉

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.24.12 @ 10:34 pm

Where do I sign up? I need to do one of these.

Comment by Buddha 01.24.12 @ 8:29 pm

Buddha, Sign up for what?

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.24.12 @ 10:34 pm

being wanted is a turn on, being wanted back is a huge turn on.

How would you feel about your lover sending a TXT demanding you PXT back a photo of what he wants to see ? If he was spent, could he just use his fingers or a toy to pleasure you ?

Comment by shygeek 01.24.12 @ 8:57 pm

Shygeek, I would not have a problem with the request. If he was spent I do not
mind fingers and toys.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.24.12 @ 10:36 pm

and if he spat on your arsehole, slid a toy in to it, turned it on, flipped you over and pumped his hard cock in and out of you, would that please you too ?

Comment by shygeek 01.24.12 @ 11:39 pm

shygeek, that would absolutely please me.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.25.12 @ 10:21 am

I can only say, “yes, THIS”. Wonderfully and perfectly said.

Comment by Mina 01.25.12 @ 12:59 am

Mina, thank you for all the comments but they were in the spam area. 🙁 I’m glad I check every so often.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.26.12 @ 8:05 am

You signed “With Lust” but this is a love letter in its naked honesty, Gracie.

Comment by X 01.25.12 @ 2:12 am

X, shhhh. I think you are right.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.25.12 @ 10:21 am

well then, whoever the lucky fellow is, if he has the stamina and imagination, he is going to be happy and well sated, as will you.

Enjoy the search and interview process 😉

Comment by Shygeek 01.25.12 @ 12:47 pm

Shygeek, We shall see. 🙂

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.25.12 @ 2:22 pm

more than just see one would hope 😉

Comment by Shygeek 01.25.12 @ 2:41 pm

shygeek, I am picky and slow. It takes time to find a suitable lover.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.25.12 @ 3:22 pm

I meant “more than just see” in a literal sense i.e. more than just looking. Touching, tasting etc should be involved too

and slow is good 🙂

Comment by Shygeek 01.25.12 @ 3:35 pm

Your letter made me think of this… http://www.thefancy.com/things/282112549 so let it begin.

Comment by Nathan 01.25.12 @ 9:45 pm

Sign up for what? “Fuck my mind and you can fuck my body.”

Comment by Buddha 01.26.12 @ 7:45 am

Buddha, You know how to find me and you are already one step ahead the rest.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.26.12 @ 8:09 am

Been married for 3.years and i don’t think i have ever made my wife cum. i hate it. she was a virgin before we got married. idk we don’t get into it, just have sex you know..

Comment by sadguy 01.26.12 @ 12:45 pm

Sadguy I am very sorry to hear that. Communication is pretty key and even with sex. You should try to talk to each other and explore what gets you both off.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.26.12 @ 3:49 pm

you said it was okay for your lover to fuck you awake, would you reciprocate and let him have the pleasure of waking up to the sight of you sucking or riding his morning glory ?

Comment by Shygeek 01.26.12 @ 5:13 pm

Shy geek, I have done that several times.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.26.12 @ 5:49 pm

Yes, yes and YES! Those last words – “Fuck my mind and you can fuck my body.” – Yes. You speak my mind too.

Comment by Lady Grinning Soul 01.28.12 @ 4:30 am

LGS, Thank you my dear.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.30.12 @ 12:22 pm

I love this, Gracie. Brilliant idea, even better execution. Very, very well done.

Comment by Mr. X 01.30.12 @ 12:14 pm

Mr. X, thank you very much.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 01.30.12 @ 12:22 pm

I hope you enjoyed your email

Comment by Shygeek 01.31.12 @ 3:28 pm

I just want to know how to audition for the part of future male lover. You have just described my ideal lover. And Bravo for having the balls to say how u want it, that’s my main gripe w/partners it always seems to be one or the others job, for lack of a better descriptor, to decide what they r doing sexually. I get going and ask what I should do next to them and get whatever u want to. Them do something and that was not what they wanted I’m not looking for step by step instructions just some ques unless you want to give step by step I follow instruction well. So thanks for putting this out there love it

Comment by scomojo22 02.01.12 @ 2:12 am

scomojo22, Thank you for the beautiful comment. It’s important and key to communicate and express your wants and desires. I have said this before but if your lover is revolted or cannot accommodate then you should seek it elsewhere and that goes in my household as well.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 02.08.12 @ 10:00 am

absolutely…the mind is the key!

Comment by nate 02.06.12 @ 1:06 pm

nate, Yes, I very much agree. Thanks for stopping by.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 02.08.12 @ 10:00 am

If every woman was as honest and open as you, this world would be a better place.

Comment by Breschau 02.11.12 @ 12:38 pm

Breschau, I hope a little. 🙂

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 02.13.12 @ 1:30 pm

Exactly how I feel

Comment by J 02.23.12 @ 1:30 pm

J, very good to hear.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 02.27.12 @ 3:43 pm

Good girl, u sound just like my woman. We r in costa rica right now

Comment by Carlos 07.01.12 @ 5:23 pm

A very direct and honest letter. so few people accept the physical emotional and mental needs of themselves and others. being able to recognize and tie those in together frees a person to live in the experience and increases its effects. i wish more people were this honest about their wants needs and desires. i am also an aggressive lover and want my partner to feel my desires on every level.

Comment by raymond 08.03.12 @ 1:37 pm

Hi Gracie, I’m extremely new to sex. Well ive been having sex for 5 years but nothing crazy erotic. I am amazed at how easily you can come, sorry if this is too forward, but i cant unless its from clit stimulation. Its frustrating to say the least. Any tips?

Comment by Jas 08.16.12 @ 6:08 am

Jas, Great sex starts with the mind for us women. I will listen to music, read something filthy or watch something filthy. It’s a state of mind to be in a heightened sense of arousal. Masturbation is helpful because you know what turns you on. Open communication with your lover is a very key component to great sex. I will interact with my lover through text messages or email to keep things heightened and let him know I want him and he does the same to me. It’s always nice to keep the channels of lust flowing. I hope that helps a little.

Comment by Dark Gracie ® 08.16.12 @ 9:30 am

Gracie, thank you so much for replying! It actually made me teary and happy that you cared to reply 🙂 I would love to have that lust back that my partner and I had, it seemed to fail at two years. I will do as you say with my state of mind 🙂
Thank you.
P.s. could you make a post (or email me)as to what you would do to me if I was your sub, I’m only 21 so go easy. X

Comment by Jas 08.18.12 @ 6:15 am

Gracie, thank you so much for replying! It actually made me teary and happy that you cared to reply 🙂 I would love to have that lust back that my partner and I had, it seemed to fail at two years. I will do as you say with my state of mind 🙂
Thank you.
P.s. could you make a post (or email me)as to what you would do to me if I was your sub, I’m only 21 so go easy.

Comment by Jas 08.18.12 @ 6:16 am

Taste every part of your lover with all your skin, keep searching till you feel their soul on your tongue.

Comment by Bjorn 08.17.12 @ 3:50 pm


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