i have been anxious to try the Sidekick Silicone Anal Plug for review for a while now. with me, i need to be in the right frame of mind and physical condition to try out an anal plug. it’s been years now since i have had anything in my ass and i have to say i was a little disappointed with this plug.

i stripped down and put some Astroglide on the plug and put on some porn. after a few minutes of watching a woman getting fucked in the ass i felt the need to push the plug inside. i was slow trying to angle in the plug to hopefully get it to hit my g-spot. as i eased it inside of me it felt really good however i could already tell the base of the plug was going to give me issues. i actually have an ass so i am not sure if it’s me having an ass or the base of the plug. i have run into this before with bases of an anal plug being too big and hence causing pain.

i tried to ignore the annoyance of the base, masturbated with my vibrator and continued to watch more porn. i had my first orgasm very quickly and was happy the plug stayed in place instead of pushing out. i kept pushing on the plug to make sure it was all the way in and kept masturbating. the second orgasm caused the plug to slide out and i called it quits. the pain of the base was just not to my liking and was a turn off.

this plug could still be a great beginner’s toy. the material and shape is very quite nice. it’s not super harsh pushing inside and it seems to give when necessary. i did enjoy it for the few minutes it was inside of me, i just wish the base was smaller or more ass friendly.

it all started when i was sick of taking birth control pills and it ended with me getting an IUD installed (YES, i said installed). i will not go into gory female details since this is a sex blog and not a sex ed forum but i will say this: the things we women go through is just unfuckingbelievable. however, if you do have questions about an IUD, please do not hesitate to IM, DM or email me. i am always an open book to your questions.

here was the downer to switching birth control…”no unprotected sex for 2 weeks.”

fuck.

later that day…

he reassured me as we went back and forth via email that we are two creative people and we can get through the next two weeks without actual sex. i actually believed this was going to be doable and “just fine”.

that. was. a. fictional. thought.

fast forward…

i was biting his right shoulder like a rabid animal or in his words “demon girl”. he was flinching as my teeth snapped as his flesh. his fingers were buried inside of me and i was pleading with him right in his ear,

“i need you to fuck me.”

bite.

“i need your cock inside of me.”

bite.

“i need to fuuuck.”

bite.

i was laying on my back literally crawling out of my skin. i sounded like a complete addict needing a hit and i was bargaining with the devil to get it. i was panting trying to get control of myself, i laid there being completely unreasonable and insane he whispered, “you brought your toys?”

pant, “yes,” pant.

i pulled out the traveling arsenal and the Njoy Eleven made a thud on the bed as it sat nestled in its case. i knew what he was going for in the dark room. i could hear him trying to warm up the cold steel. i felt anxious waiting for that metal to press against my cunt. the bulbous tip slipped between my lips and i gasped at the coldness trying to make its way inside of me. the sting of the cold didn’t last long as my heat warmed the stainless steel quickly. i gripped and tugged the sheets as he skillfully moved the Eleven in and out of me making sure it ridge hit the right spots going in and out. i was coming with each insertion and extraction.

“harder,” i uttered.

he pushed more inside me and would let the end hit my g-spot each time. i was coming more and i remember telling myself several times to breathe or he may stop fucking me with it.

“harder,” i moaned.

i pushed in as much as my body would allow i was gripping at the world. my body was thrusting against the steel and i wanted more in my sexual aggravation. somehow pulled him on top of me to hold on to him as i kept pushing and coming. as he pulled the Eleven out of me i could feel wetness dripping down my thigh and the extreme heat of the steel.

“next weekend is going to be worse,” he said as a matter of fact.

“i don’t want to think about that right now,” i said breathlessly.

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my email: i’m over due for a spanking… just sayin.

his email: Noted. Actually, already noted from Twitter.

i have noticed when i go into a dark place pain is essential with sex. i never know what to really expect from him. we email about a lot of things during the week but sometimes things conspire while other things will fall at the waist side.

he was behind me fucking me; my ass propped in the air still donning my pink panties that he had pushed aside. i couldn’t count how many times i came but i remember when he pulled out of me, slid the panties off of me and started spanking my bare ass with his hand. instantly i was growing even wetter and the stings immediately gave me relief. there were times i winced at the burn and others when i groaned for more.

i wanted harder… harder…. harder.

both hands squeezed my flesh and then he raked his nails down. his right hand traveled between my legs forcing his fingers inside of me. i gripped the black iron headboard and pulled up. i started to fuck his fingers as his free hand continued punishing my ass. it’s all a blur past that moment; i was lost in my greedy need for pain and pleasure.

he pulls himself from me and hugs me from behind. we fall to the bed and lay there on my stomach as i caught my breath. his face inching towards mine; it wasn’t over, he kissed my lips and i pushed up kiss him.

teeth biting lips.

lips sucking lips.

hands roaming.

his hand made its way between my legs and i pushed his fingers inside of me.

“make me come, make me come….thank you,” i whispered in his ear as i came.

the wetness flowed from my cunt on to the bed. he mounted me spreading my willing legs apart and pushed inside me. my head was pressed against the iron as he fucked me relentlessly.

“i want to suck your cock.” it didn’t register.

“i want to suck your cock,” i pushed him off of me, he fell on to the bed as i pushed his cock in my mouth. i love tasting myself on him. it’s the closest i get to tasting pussy. i licked my tongue on the underside of his cock as my mouth enveloped him. up and down, faster and faster, he grunted as he came in my mouth and i moaned against his slowly fading hard on. i swallowed as i slowly and gently sucked all traces of cum from his cock. i kept him in my mouth till he was flaccid and moved my way up to his chest to rest.

“your ass is very pink.”

i chuckled a little, “did you leave any welts?”

“no.”

“you’ll have to try harder next time.”

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i am going to let you in on a little secret since most men and some women do not get subtlety: i love a mouth on my neck and preferably by the jugular.

we laid in bed on our sides, i was nestled under his chin. he seemed to be aimlessly gliding his finger tips around my spine and some how manged to move up in the neck/ear area. i started shuddering as his fingers grazed my ear lobe and neck. pleased, he started to focus on the area more and more. this led to me squirming and twisting. the touches shot straight between my legs like electricity.

he shifted upward and i thought he was going to mount me right between the legs but he stopped. his mouth went to my neck and i clung for life; my eyes rolled, fluttered and crossed. i was paralyzed as my nails dug into his back and i couldn’t even remember breathing. it was such a blissful state and so long since a pair of lips ravaging my neck.

i am not sure what happened to be honest. i was in a dream state as he fucked me from behind. taking all of him deep inside of me as i relished the sensations.

“cum inside of me,” i whispered into the bed.

“cum inside of me,” i chanted.

“cum…”

he grunted as he spilled inside of me. i milked his cock with my cunt, coming, trying to keep every bit of him inside me. it’s like a game seeing how long i can keep him inside of me as i would push up against him and pull his cock, feeling him jerk as i squeezed.

he stumbled back to his side of the bed, my head found its way to his chest.

“i found a magic spot,” he grinned.

“uh huh,” i said with a smile.

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the following is a guest blog post from a delectable friend of mine, BBrkdwn. this lovely and naughty creature is new to sex blogging and may be coming to a blog near you. please enjoy and be gentle but not too gentle with her.

I woke one Friday morning without stirring, still nuzzled in his side. The light spying between the blinds and the sill suggested it was still rather early. But the rain was beating down like it had something to prove. I don’t sleep well anymore. Not this year. In and out of light comas if at best. However, I find comfort in sharing a bed, regardless of it’s company or ownership of said sleeping quarters…His was the first in a while.

But there I was rested and content, limbs and linens neatly organized in just the right sense of comfort. Tracing one of my once neatly painted nails across his flesh, watching the small follicles rise to meet my tactile inquisition on his slumbering body. Searching for outlets to stimulate the desired effect, tracing over history on his chest, and then slowly pursuing around his furthest nipple, keeping a watchful eye on any facial twitch. A slow, steady pinch was the catalyst I needed as his hand grazed up my leg, stopping on my hip. Still watching his face, two blue eyes came into focus. Pinching harder to get my intention across, the hand on my hip was now digging delicious anguish into my skin by way of nails running the length of my body, pulling me closer to him. No words exchanged and still locked into eye contact he found my wrist and flipped me, my back facing him. An efficient lover, one hand looped around my head to grab my hair exposing my neck kissing and nipping the skin as the other teased the elastic band of my panties, inching them off slowly. The wetness already beginning to pool, yearning to be touched for longer than comfortable enough admitting, knowing full well the touch of his flesh inside me would set me off like a rocket in record time.

Still not saying a word and being obedient.He teases my clit with curled fingers, I moan and buck to the rhythm he’s building. Sensing my anticipation, in one fluid motion he bites my earlobe and whispers to fuck him. I fumble behind me and help his cock plunge deep, hitting all the right spots, I shudder and grind against him, biting into his arm. the scent of his cologne lifts from his damp skin. A musky, provocative scent that I have come accustomed to being his calling card. Almost to the point of having all my senses at their peak he digs his nails into my hip and rake them out across and down my thigh. The sensation and the pain propels me over the edge, I come hard digging my fingers into the sheets, him still driving into me with conviction. I quake and murmur his name. I demand for him to come for me be a good boy and come for me, hurt me more. Entangling his hands in my hair he pulls my head back. He mumbles he’s going to make it hurt, beg him to make it hurt. A groan escapes him and I’ve had my fill. He slows to a stop. I turn around to find our eye contact, in their dreamy, glazed over state. No words exchanged , just his sly smirk and those brilliant blue eyes.